How a Grocery Store Encounter Inspired Flaming Lights
The idea for Flaming Lights was born from a powerful and heartwarming experience that left a lasting impression on me. It was an ordinary day at the grocery store, but it turned into an extraordinary moment—one that would forever shape my vision and mission.
While shopping, I noticed a young girl sitting in a cart beside her mother. She had politely asked for marshmallows, her big eyes shining with hope. Her mother gently said no, and what happened next left me speechless. The little girl didn’t whine, pout, or beg. Instead, she simply smiled and accepted the decision with grace, her radiant demeanor lighting up the aisle.
Her obedience and respect were so inspiring that I felt a deep nudge in my heart—one I believe was from God—to reward her for her beautiful character. I decided to buy the marshmallows as a surprise, intending to leave them anonymously at the register. But through what I can only describe as divine intervention, the plan unfolded differently.
As I was checking out, a cashier unexpectedly called me to a new line. To my amazement, I ended up right behind the mother and daughter. It felt like a moment meant to be. I quietly asked the cashier to add the marshmallows to their bag without drawing attention. The gesture was meant to be simple, but it turned into something far greater.
When the mother noticed the marshmallows, she immediately questioned the purchase. Her integrity shone as she explained that she couldn’t accept something she hadn’t paid for. The daughter’s behavior remained just as inspiring—calm, respectful, and full of joy despite the circumstances.
This brief encounter moved me profoundly. It was a living example of honor, honesty, and respect—values we so often long to see in the world. That day, I realized how important it is to celebrate these "flaming lights"—moms and children who exemplify exceptional character and integrity.
From that moment, Flaming Lights was born. Its mission is to shine a spotlight on these beautiful acts of character and provide resources, tools, and inspiration for other families to cultivate such values. Whether through books, programs, or digital content, my goal is to empower parents and children to be the light in their communities, raising a generation rooted in respect, kindness, and honor.
This grocery store encounter was more than a chance meeting. It was a reminder that extraordinary moments of character and grace happen all around us—and that they deserve to be celebrated and shared. Flaming Lights is my way of amplifying those moments, lighting the path for others to follow.
